After I read Ramayana, I have to admit that in this poem which done by the ancient Indians thousands years ago, is fantastically well written, very interesting to read, and when I think about the story and compare it to our modern life, there are some thoughts that popping into my mind.
The first thought I had is about suicide. When Hanuman feels stressed out that he thinks that he cannot complete the mission of finding Sita, Hanuman wants to kill himself for his failure. However, Hanuman subdues that negative thinking with more reasonable responsibilities and a meaningful quote, “the wise ones say that suicide is the root of many evils, and that if one lives one is sure to find what one seeks.” I was impressed and totally agree with this idea that the Indian people already thought about thousands years ago. For my perspective, every life (especially for human) has its individual goal for living. Murder might be the doomful faith for one, but suicide is just unreasonable failure of life. As human beings, we have to think what we do for our life, and we have to be responsible for who we are. Suicide is a quick escape from the destructive situation, but the consequences follows the suicide would be worse than before because it is a failure for that responsibility. Moreover, in many other religion also considered suicide is a sinful thing to do, such as in the Divine Law in the Bible of Christian. Thus, I think that for the minimum and basic goal for living is to keep living or be alive, and even a heroic suicide really cannot be considered as a successful living example.
After life and death, I found another thought about one of the most important and also the greatest emotion of human: love. The love between Sita and Rama is very touching. When Rama is trying his best to get his beloved Sita back, Sita shows us an absolute faith to her husband Rama. There is a funny, but rather more sarcastically quote which says “Every man and woman will cheat on their spouse, it just the matter of how magnificent the attraction is.” This simply means, if the attraction to us is powerful enough, we will cheat on our spouse because we cannot resist the attraction. However, in Sundara 18-26, after the demon Ravana consistently requesting Sita many seductive attractions to be his wife, and all his other wives will be her servants; reasonable facts that his has unbeatable power in all three world and her husband has no way to find her or save her; also threat her to become his wife within one year or he will eat her for dinner. After all, Sita still hold her purity and faith to her husband, and in the end, Rama successfully saves her and they both live in a happy life. It is such a happy ending story, but I has changed my mind about man and woman’s faithfulness. One will cheat on his/her spouse because he/she does not love his/her spouse enough(or maybe it cannot be qualified as love), true love will never turn their back on each other, like Sita and Rama. No matter how low the chance is, and how hard the situation gets, he never gives up hope for finding Sita. For Sita, as a powerless normal woman, surrounds and threats by Ravana and those demonesses, she still refused to be Ravana’s wife no matter how good the condition is or how bad her situation and consequence gets(even it risks her life!). Their faith for each other is creating a strong bond for their love, and it is the true love I considered. What is love? I think Sita and Rama have taught me a good lesson today. I will end my post with another quote heard from one of my friend: “if two holds each others’ hands and take a walk for one day, they are impassionate; if two holds each others’ hands and take a walk for a year, they are dating; if two holds each others’ hands and take a walk for ten years, they are relatives; if two holds each others’ hands and take a walk for fifty years, it is called love.


